What's the best way to break up with a clingy girlfriend?

What's the best way to break up with a clingy girlfriend?
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Directly and gently, but firmly. Use plain language so there is no mixed message. Here is an example, “GF (insert her name), I am not going to see you anymore. I liked you, but your insecurity and constant calling killed any feeling that I had.”
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