No, No, and No. I don’t have pets and when I did they were not allowed to do any of those things. My last dog would not even come into the kitchen, he would stop at the kitchen door and just look in. I did a lot of home baking and could not afford any type of pet hair in any foods I prepared. I also don’t think pets should be allowed to walk on countertops, that’s like wiping a rag on the floor than wiping your countertop with the same rag. Eeewww!. As far as sleeping in the bed, I only know a lot of people that allow it.