answer:My pet peeves were once very rigid, pent up, and quite small in scope of vision and view. I was an overweight, miserable, WASPY, quite prude all american housewife, and mother. I was however a different person then, trying to live a different life from what I was raised with. When everything collapsed, I compromised some of those things on purpose just to see for myself if I was wrong or not, and others I challenged but still went back to. The one that stuck… Grammar and punctuation nazi’s Rude people. LOL