My mother is asking me for money from my inheritance - how should I go about it?

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The text message from earlier today was me asking my mom “Do you remember the day my father died you asked me for money?” My mother’s response to my question- She wrote her full name, $3,600 then wrote “payment of loans” This was her response to the question I asked, which hurts me a little she didn’t even respond she just wants $3,600 for “Payment of Loans” My text message after that was “Can you let me know exactly what the loan money was for etc?” and my mother’s response was: I don’t know exactly what for maybe for your car ??? ———————————————————— Am I being selfish here ? Should I just give my mother $3,600 ? I love my mom a lot, believe me I do, it just feels wrong and ODD she’d ask me in this way….? Maybe I am wrong…? One of my friends told me if I give her money she will ask for more. Thank you for any advice. I love my mom, I don’t want to seem weird or selfish, but I feel like this money from my father was meant for me and what I need to do with my life ? I feel hurt my mom only cares about the money. Sorry for such a long question.

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