Recent questions tagged advice

Description : Can someone give me advice on applying for leadership at my job?

Last Answer : Exceed expectations, always be professional, dress appropriately, be on time to work, let upper management know you are interested in a promotion when the timing is good if they are unaware. Customer service in ... customer know you're glad they told you and see what you can do to resolve the issue.

Description : At what age do we leave our youth?

Last Answer : I haven’t yet and I’m fifty.

Description : Can a public business put up a sign expressing their political opinion and obscenity?

Last Answer : I live in a Red County in a Blue State. This seems to encourage businesses to brag about being super-Trumpy. There is a business close to my house that has posted a lot of pro-Trump (and anti-democratic) signs. I went in once and won’t go back.

Description : What is your latest, freshest, and most recent piece of nonprofessional medical advice to share?

Last Answer : A Cologuard test is sort of gross but easier than a colonoscopy.

Description : When do you think the pandemic will end?

Last Answer : I believe it will be a long time. At least until science comes up with something better than vaccines. I am thinking that with our yearly flu shots that we will have yearly Covid shots for years.

Description : How do I stop caring about other people?

Last Answer : I know it's very hard, but you have to let him go. Right now he is physically gone, but he is still reigning in your head and doesn't allow you to have peace. The only way to free yourself from ... not make other people suffer for the fault of a guy who doesn't deserve to be here in the first place.

Description : What else should I do about this mold I saw in a school?

Last Answer : I wouldn’t call back again. Will you be in the school again soon? You can check to see if it was cleaned when you are there.

Description : Was helpful towards the wrong people, what should I do?

Last Answer : You have answered your question. They are opportunists who care for no one but themselves. Your only option is to cut tight with them. You deserve better friends, if you are, as you said, open-minded and friendly.

Description : What have you learned in dealing with the aftermath of an unexpected death or departure?

Last Answer : To the survivor: get at least twice as many death certificates as you think you will need. We had quite a set of problems when my Dad passed because we didn’t have enough. The red tape was daunting.

Description : Can someone give me some tips on lyric writing?

Last Answer : Located this website as it may help? https://www.song-lyrics-generator.org.uk/

Description : Can we make a list of common sense advice?

Last Answer : Never assume anything. And if you must assume something, assume to never assume anything! Honesty is always the best policy but some things are better left unsaid. Do unto others as you would have them do unto ... nice, don't say anything at all. A happy wife makes for a happy life. For the wife.

Description : What has your best friend taught you?

Last Answer : She taught me the comfort of having someone who actively listens to you and supports you.

Description : Paid Partial Rent - Can they evict?

Last Answer : Sorry I wanted to add something but can’t figure out how to edit. Since legally I haven’t received any kind of notice, no 3 day, no eviction – is it illegal for them to put my unit up for rent? Also, they can’t show my unit either right?

Description : Would you still travel to the U.S. if you were me?

Last Answer : You’re going to do fine here.

Description : Should I tell people that I'm a stripper? Why or why not?

Last Answer : No. Secrets destroy intimacy with all you keep them from. If you really feel okay about your choice to strip then you have nothing to hide. Lying is never good, especially right out of the gate ... job that doesn't involve sexually exploiting yourself for a few bucks. You're better than that right?

Description : Why is it suddenly OK to be fat, with the known medical hazards?

Last Answer : It’s not. Being fat is bad for you but a few sensational garbage papers easily make a good news headline. Especially with all of the anti-fat shaming campaigns going on.

Description : How to control your anger when playing sports?

Last Answer : Welcome to Fluther, @5starskillaz. Well, aside from how you like to think of yourself as aggressive and a bit physical but clean , you're a dirty player, as you admitted within two sentences after ... as physical but clean , that's a cognitive dissonance that you have to work out for yourself.

Description : What causes people to sometimes read a question, and then respond as though you're seeking advice about what to do and how to do it, when all you really asked for was opinions?

Last Answer : I see it too. Its a Fluther thing. It happens when Jellies remember facts from previous questions.

Description : Friend or is he?

Last Answer : Hello and welcome to Fluther. I am much like your friend. Other people text me first. I don't initiate the first text unless I need an answer to a question. That doesn't mean that I didn't think of ... have to be a friend to have a friend. Don't use them as just a sounding board to your problems.

Description : Are you an elder?

Last Answer : In my old job yes. In my new one I’m still learning.

Description : When someone complains to you about the same thing over and over, do you offer them unsolicited advice?

Last Answer : answer:I avoid such people. The vibes aren’t healthy for me.

Description : In a Q & A, who would prevail? You, or your 18 yo self? [Link]?

Last Answer : Back then I had a lot more self respect, while I lacked confidence. Now, I have embraced self-hatred, and have a lot of confidence, probably misplaced. I think my older self would win. My younger self would be amazed at my success, yet I am envious of the potential I had, and wasted.

Description : Whether or not it is clear to you, isn't it reasonable to assume that the universe is unfolding as it should.

Last Answer : Yes, I’d say that’s quite reasonable. Of course, part of that unfolding would be human efforts to alter the course of events. Maybe that too is as it should be.

Description : How do I deal with this teen?

Last Answer : answer:I don;t think the error with the microphone is related to his crush. And his reaction to the error sounds like common crush type nervousness at messing up. As for dealing with the crush, it may ... larger group referring to a boyfriend may discourage him. Or it may not. Worth a try though.

Description : If you were to give someone a single piece of advice for a more productive 2015, what would that be?

Last Answer : answer:I'd advise them to identify the key, achievable goals they want to achieve during the year, and to actively sit down and plan how they can achieve them. So if they want to be healthier ... life, set some meaningful targets and then plan small steps that will allow them to reach their target.

Description : Do professionals keep in contact with their professors?

Last Answer : No. Not unless they are willing to pay them.

Description : I am having a colonoscopy in two days… Could you give me some advice about that?

Last Answer : A glass at a time, I would put a little ice in or make it cold by putting it in the refrigerator. Have a schedule of how much you have to drink by a certain time.

Description : Do you have any unsolicited advice to share with the collective?

Last Answer : Mine would be, go for a long walk by yourself. That's it! It just puts you into a right state of mind. Whether you're stressed out, sad, had a fight with someone, feeling out of shape, ... afterward. It gives you a great feeling of calm energy, and all those problems look a lot more solvable.

Description : How do I fill out the application form from McDonalds?

Last Answer : answer:I would suggest looking into what employment would do to your already issued government benefits. You might be in risk of losing them if you are employed. And if the job doesn’t work out it might be hard to get them back.

Description : What's the worst advice you have ever gotten that you actually listened to?

Last Answer : answer:She’s a wonderful girl. Yes, marry her. I’m sure the two of you will be very happy together. HA HA HA !!!

Description : What is the best advice ever?

Last Answer : Do what you want to do while you can do it.

Description : Simple, yet complicated issue on understanding a woman?

Last Answer : She appreciates being treated like an individual with her own wants and needs, and not like a combination lock.

Description : Anyone have any advice for story writing?

Last Answer : If you want to write horror, read more horror If you want to write romance, read more romance If you want to write comedy, read more comedy Just read more and it will eventually come to you.

Description : Tips and Advice on Cuddling?

Last Answer : Say what? Are you serious? Good Lord, there’s seems to be a guide.

Description : How can you concentrate better?

Last Answer : I just read an article about how ylang ylang essential oil helps with focus. I use a blend that has ylang ylang, frankincense, lime, patchouli, and I’m not sure what else. It works well to focus.

Description : How to start a new life?

Last Answer : answer:You'd obviously have to do your research on the location you're interested in. In fact, it's best to have jobs lined up in that location before moving. You can do this by visiting the location for ... about where you are, where you want to be, what you can afford, etc. How old are you?

Description : How can I use my debit card without knowing my pin number, or any of my accounts information?

Last Answer : Yes, go to your bank with identification. I have an on-line access to my account and can change the pin number, just have to log on with my ID and password.

Description : Can someone change their countenance?

Last Answer : answer:Check to see whether you frown on a regular basis. The frown and its lines and squinty eyes can give you an oafish, irritated or boorish expression. It’s pretty easy to countermand.

Description : 0g to 00g stretching advice?

Last Answer : answer:Hey @yasminemaried , welcome to Fluther. I've been at 0g for years. Silicone tunnels are a really bad way to stretch your piercings, because they are squishy!!! I would never attempt to gauge ... take a couple days of trying this process to succeed in getting the 00g taper in. Good luck!

Description : Does anyone sell jewelry out there?

Last Answer : I have a friend who sells on etsy.com. She does pretty well.

Description : What actions should I take if I have an idea for a website?

Last Answer : answer:First I would think about the type of people that you think would use the website and do some market research by creating a series of questions and get their opinion. I doubt very much that you would ... design for over a year now so if you want some feedback then feel free to get in touch.

Description : How can my girlfriend successfully escape the control of her parents?

Last Answer : I have a couple of other options, although posting the luggage now slowly over time is the one of yours I like the best. She could slowly take things to a trusted friend that will be packed ... situation will ever change with her parents, but I wish you luck in that they will finally accept you.

Description : Can you suggest any effective ways of reminding yourself all day of something?

Last Answer : answer:A common one is to put a rubber bad around your wrist and snap it when you are tempted to break your resolve, This probably works best frying NOT to do something, like smoking or eating ... want to do. I'm much better at finding a distraction. I drive myself nuts. Suggestions welcome!

Description : How does one find who they are?

Last Answer : answer:First of all, congratulations on making an important decision on your own. That's huge. In my opinion, if you're terrified, you're doing it right. There is no shame, at any age, in seeking out ... the end, you have to be able to sit alone with your thoughts and decide what is right for you.

Description : Anyone have any tips on handling a realtor and seller?

Last Answer : I would say that they are very invested in making the sale, thus they will not want the price to be higher than you are willing/able to pay even if it would result in a higher commission. That being said, find someone who you feel you can talk to.

Description : How to remember many names?

Last Answer : How to take notes?

Description : What was the best advice you were ever given?

Last Answer : answer:My mentor in one of my first professional jobs when I was in my early twenties pointed out to me, not so gently - but very aptly - that I needed to be more careful sharing my opinions and do my ... heart you'll be fine. (He was an ER doctor..so his perspective might be a bit different.)

Description : Is it mean to discourage people?

Last Answer : I would describe the day to day life of someone in your field and let them ask questions. Then they can make up their own minds. What you don’t like may be someone else’s idea of perfection.

Description : What do you wish you knew when you were in your 20s?

Last Answer : answer:Things I would tell someone in their 20s: #1: Marry the right person. Marrying the wrong person is probably the biggest wealth killer and happiness killer out there. Buy a vehicle based on safety ... Get life insurance when you get married. Don't get married until (or unless) you want kids.

Description : Do you agree with the advice from this columnist, as to the asker's obligations?

Last Answer : Spending time with people shouldn’t be tallied. They’re both going to live for decades, they can hang out another time. How immature.