Recent questions tagged etiquette

Description : Do you wear a bra with your pajamas when staying at someone else’s house?

Last Answer : Yes, I have a specific night time bra just for that.

Description : Have you come across a successful etiquette for asking professional strangers to prove their vaccine status before engaging their services?

Last Answer : A written document / policy surrounding this subject and your requirement should do. This should list that they provide proof so you can validate. If they can’t meet it, then move on to someone who can.

Description : Did Biden bring Boris Johnson a wedding gift?

Last Answer : Does it matter?

Description : Should I tip the window cleaners?

Last Answer : If they do a good job tip them to show they did a good job.

Description : What do you think about people that post their stock portfolio value?

Last Answer : Where are they posting it? And why?

Description : Do you immediately withdraw your candidacy after verbally accepting an offer from another?

Last Answer : My thoughts are keep your options open.

Description : FB users - when someone names you in a FB challenge do you respond?

Last Answer : I ignore those. I’m not into it. Nobody has ever asked me why I didn’t do it.

Description : How did the traditions of bowing, shaking hands, kissing hands, and other greetings start and end?

Last Answer : Bowing, at least, goes back to biblical and pre-biblical days as a sign of respect and trust. If you bowed to a person you meet, it meant that you had no evil intent (i.e. to stab or kill ... although I imagine that both had to do with showing that you were harmless / no threat to the other party.

Description : Is the young man in this article referred to correctly?

Last Answer : You mean Mister Westerman instead of Master Westerman? I think it was done with tongue-in-cheek humor, as matches the tone of the article. I’m wondering why it’s sparked so much attention in you? What are your thoughts?

Description : How do I handle it when I think someone is probably, but not positively, lying to me?

Last Answer : Even Aladdin lied. Princess Jasmine loves him anyway. Think twice about who you let in your inner circle from now on. I would brand your friend a liar and save you the drama trying to figure out your friends ... . If you feelup to it your can warn your friend that you won't tolerate any more lies. .

Description : If 'Madam' is how you address a woman in a high position, should a Goddess be addressed as 'Goddam' ?

Last Answer : Only if you address a god as “Mad”.

Description : Is it bad taste to bring in other food into a locally owned coffee shop?

Last Answer : It is the pinnacle of rudeness to do so. If the coffee shop sells food, buy their food, don't bring someone else's food in. This is their business, their livelihood. Especially if it's a small ... want their coffee, but someone else's food, get takeout from both places and go to a public space.

Description : A question about etiquette: Shoud I have asked their permission before posting candid pictures on Facebook?

Last Answer : Asking them is polite. Don’t identity them, unless they approve.

Description : Is being wrong forgivable when you admit fault?

Last Answer : I generally think that when someone acknowledges they've made a mistake, or works to adjust their perspective when presented with better facts, they become more trustworthy than they were before, not less. I ... 't been mistaken for longer than I had, and make sure to research more the next time.

Description : How can I tell someone I could care less in a nice way?

Last Answer : Not contacting them will drive them crazy, and would be the best revenge. I hope your dog is better.

Description : If you are the person who has let your food explode in the microwave, why don't you clean it up?

Last Answer : I have a funny story about this. Actually, not funny. More of a BURN THE RICH STORY . When I worked at the theater we had a lot of college kids and high school kids. They would make their kitchen ... I run as fast as possible while vacuuming since if it takes 3 hours I only get paid for two. Sigh.

Description : How do you talk with someone who laughs after he makes a normal comment?

Last Answer : I’m sure you’re right that it’s a nervous thing, but it’s a tic, not a tick, unless he’s got other health issues. Man, I’m just wondering how a nervous tick would act now, and that’s not funny at all.

Description : How to handle neighbor emailing my boss?

Last Answer : Wow! Maybe she has a drinking problem or something. I hope it was just a one time thing otherwise maybe she’s mentally unstable and you might have to seek legal advice or move. I hope it works out for you.

Description : Is it weird to keep pictures of my ex and I on my phone?

Last Answer : This may sound weird, but it kind of depends on how old you are. I mean I was married for 7 years to my first husband (together for 12) and I still have tons of pictures of us. But they are ... a box. It might be that younger people keep them on their phone instead. How long have you been divorced?

Description : Have you ever been "attacked" on an online forum?

Last Answer : welcome to the internet, where everyone’s an asshole because there are no consequences!

Description : Taiwanese colleague is extremely rude to me via email. How can I tactfully put her in her place?

Last Answer : Can you collect them and bring them to a superior, explaining what you have done to resolve it on your own?

Description : Do you judge a person by their "hand shake? "(Details )

Last Answer : answer:Do such things matter to you? Absolutely! It is one of those moments that transcends political correctness, ideology, and the general bullshit. It matters.

Description : FB question, if you are tagged in a post, can you like it without adding it to your page?

Last Answer : answer:That's a good question. I have the same setting where I have to approve all tags. At least, I'm supposed to approve them, but as you mentioned, sometimes tags go through without my approval, ... to click like before I've added it to my timeline. Hopefully, someone will have a good answer.

Description : Post-funeral: Not everyone's invited to the restaurant, so what do you say to them so there are no hurt feelings?

Last Answer : I would say that those extras who want to attend, please pay for their own meals. Company is always encouraged, but the restaurant is given a budget and it will be stuck to. If you weren’t specifically invited, but would like to join us, your meal will be on your own bill. Arrange accordingly.

Description : Should I train my staff to stand to attention whenever a lady arrives at the manor?

Last Answer : THAT should have been done long ago. The butler should also be at her beck and call.

Description : Do knighted British celebrities find it offensive to be addressed by their first name?

Last Answer : answer:Not if you address them with “Sir” first. And not the first time they are met or introduced to you. You would initially say “Sir Paul McCartney”, then “Sir Paul” after that.

Description : What do you think about manspreading?

Last Answer : relevant?

Description : I'm a tall girl who hates being called "big". Can anyone else relate?

Last Answer : You are waaaay overthinking this. Someone calls you big , and you know that they mean tall and it upsets you? If you were 15 I could see it, but I'm guessing you're not. To ... early 20s. This is in no way something you should concern yourself with, you are causing yourself undue distress.

Description : Would you regard this as bad customer service?

Last Answer : It’s not the best service but I would usually just take the onions off myself and not make a big deal about it.

Description : What should I wear to a funeral Mass?

Last Answer : I’ve been to a few of them. I generally do not dress up at all. I just wear something black. Black t-shirt, black jeans etc.

Description : Do you appreciate it when a sales person / waiter refers to you as sir or madam?

Last Answer : answer:No. It’s pretty much under my radar unless they seem to be smarmy about it. If I need help, I want help, short and sweet as I can get it. I seldom visit the types of places where “sir” is really expected.

Description : Do you consider it rude to be greeted with a nod instead of an audible "Hello"?

Last Answer : It’s an acknowledgment even if slightly less gregarious than a verbal “hello.” I think men are more the nodding types, as a female I usually say ” Hello” or smile and say something like ” beautiful day.” Maybe head nodding is part of the strong and silent gig with some men. haha

Description : How to disclose salary requirements without risking a job offer?

Last Answer : answer:@chelle21689, I work for a university and they have quite a strict pay scales. Specific jobs have a particular pay rate based on a scale. Our award means that goes up each year until you reach the highest ... a pay increase every year. Good luck! I hope you get it. Let us know how you go.

Description : I sent my lawn guy a tip the first week of December. As of today, he hasn't cashed the check. Should I text him?

Last Answer : I'd wait until just after New Years. That's a month. He might just be uncommonly busy, or checks might be trickling in and he's going to make one transaction out of it. Personally, I ... and write another. I think mentioning it looks like you're annoyed that it wasn't acknowledged, personally.

Description : When having to squeeze past other people to get to your seat should you face them so your crotch is in their face or away from them so they get a face full of your butt?

Last Answer : answer:Good question. This happens regularly in theaters, airplanes, and so on. I've always presented my butt in these situations. I figured that 100% of all people have butts, while only 50% of people have ... that on a plane or in a theater, things are not going to be comfortable at all times.

Description : When in public, do you find women, or men more polite and courteous?

Last Answer : answer:Men, generally speaking, are more likely to be over-the-top polite. Women are more likely to ignore me completely, while men are more likely to be obnoxious or offensive. Overall it’s kind of a wash.

Description : Hypothetically, would it be a bad idea to move into a house owned by family even if it's just the two of you?

Last Answer : from what I remember the sisters weren’t pulling their weight when their brother’s around to be dumped on. Get your own apartment and avoid the prospect of “living in fear”.

Description : Ladies: Do you give your hair stylist a holiday tip?

Last Answer : No because I tip her all year.

Description : How old do you think Mr. Jones is in this video?

Last Answer : Probably about ten or eleven. And yes, he would have been introduced formally although I would have thought it would “Master Jones” and not “Mr Jones” for a boy.

Description : Birthday etiquette question: what would you do?

Last Answer : answer:YOLO. Go all in without asking her to split. If she offers to split instead as a birthday gift, yay. If not, you still have your luxurious birthday evening. Yay big birthdays! I still haven’t figured out what I’m doing for mine this year.

Description : How do you end your emails?

Last Answer : For work Thanks, Chyna For personal emails Chyna

Description : How do I deal with under tipping my stylist?

Last Answer : answer:I would: Go back to the salon with $12 in hand. Apologize for under tipping with the explanation that you didn't know how much to tip. Offer the $12 to cover the difference. I was in a ... I forgot to tip a server at a restaurant. I did what I suggested above and everything worked out fine.

Description : What would you do if "in-laws" are extremely cliquish?

Last Answer : answer:It is understandable how you feel. Some families are more inclusive than others. If I were in that situation, I would let it pass. Once an official part of the family, if the ... I like her. Unfortunately, the constant manipulation drives a wedge in the relationship with both of them.

Description : How do you deal with irresponsible employees without feeling bad?

Last Answer : Honestly, if you hate being seen as the bad guy then you current position might not be fit for you. Any position where you have some authority over other employees is going to require a certain degree of not giving a fuck about being the “bad guy”.

Description : How do you politely inquire about someone to a third party if there is a possibility that they have died?

Last Answer : Write to one or a few of them and tell them you haven’t been able to contact E for a while and do they know if everything is ok with her. Not awkward at all put that way.

Description : Is it rude if everyone gets a discount at your dinner table except you?

Last Answer : Yes, it was rude.

Description : This is for the ladies, does it bother you to be addressed as Mam by a stranger?

Last Answer : Can be a store clerk , a waiter, basically anyone.

Description : Should I tell my boyfriend's sister I nicked her car's bumper immediately or wait?

Last Answer : Just tell her and get it over with so you can free your mind of the worry about it.

Description : Why is not knowing your heritage's language such a disgrace?

Last Answer : Look at them quizzically and say ‘This is my native language?’. Did you assume I was from somewhere else?

Description : When you embroider your initials do you put your last name in the middle?

Last Answer : answer:A traditional monogram isn't the same thing as initials. A monogram has the first letter of the individual's surname set larger in the middle and flanked by those of the first and second names. With ... , who don't have middle names? I had to get married before I could do a proper monogram!