Recent questions tagged grief

Description : When grieving, is it better to do things in order to remember (the bond, or love, is still there, though it hurts intensely) -- or suppress and forget?

Last Answer : I think there is no right or wrong way to grieve and no one can dictate to another how it should be done.

Description : What do no longer care about from your past?

Last Answer : “What do you no longer care about your past?” That I was a loser. I was trying to hard to fit in with my classmates. I thought something was wrong with me. Now I know my problem was that I cared too much to fit in.

Description : How do you find out what stage of grief that you are in?

Last Answer : Stages of grief is a very personal thing. The process for you might be nothing like the process for me. I've found that dealing with my grief day by day & NOT focusing on when it will be over helps me ... easier to deal with. I don't think that you can rush your grieving pocess just deal with it!!!

Description : Have you ever dodged a bullet? (details inside).

Last Answer : I was cruising back roads on 4 wheel drive fire trails in National Parks in Southern Illinois and on our way out there was logs blocking laying across the road. I got out and moved them and the minute ... doom on their mind .l had hot shower and another 50 years to live on my mind. Fucktards

Description : Should I stay in or am in denial about getting ahead?

Last Answer : answer:Excuse my tone but WHY DO YOU INSIST ON LABELING YOURSELF AS DISABLED ???? Are you in some kind of comfort zone where you just put up a DISABLED banner to avoid certain situations? Actually, ... Please forgive the outburst but it is sad to see young lives going to waste? GET ON WITH IT!

Description : I just purchased a Minecraft server, can anyone give me some advice/help regarding permissions and ranks and grief protection?

Last Answer : I recently purchased a realm. It simplifies the process while maintaining most of the functionality. Have you given that a shot?

Description : What happens if you put off grieving the loss of a loved one?

Last Answer : If you try that it will eat your heart up from the inside out. I’ve lost a lot of loved ones. It hurts. But it’s best just to deal with it and don’t try to pretend it doesn’t.

Description : How do you deal with finding out your mother has cancer? How is one to come to terms with this?

Last Answer : answer:Cancer is no longer a death sentence. What kind does she have? Don't panic. You want to be loving and calm for her sake. I am a 16-year survivor of breast cancer. Half of my ... years of meds. It is doable. Cancer does not discriminate for or against strength, gender and educational goals.

Description : Did "In Loving Memory of..." start with the gang banger thug culture?

Last Answer : If a person gets sad and distraught over a sticker, they have other problems.

Description : Have you ever been in a position in which you have said "it can't end like this"?

Last Answer : Absolutely - this person was the only person that's now out of my life because of their own volition - if I could have done anything else to keep em in my life, I would have and to this day, ... like this ' and I worry (and this deeply troubles me) that they will die without ever speaking to me.

Description : Advice or support for someone dealing with grief?(Myself) Thanks.

Last Answer : Take a long hot shower everyday. Let the water slowly wash away your sorrows. I mean if running water can cut the grand canyon, why not, right? worked for me at least

Description : After having lost a loved one (a few years ago), is it normal to shut down somewhat during the Christmas holidays?

Last Answer : The death of someone you love can hit you at the most unexpected times and for an undetermined number of years. Grief affects everyone differently but there are a lot of predictable wipe-outs. Do what is best for ... can be happy and then - pow!. You live with it always; it is what makes us human.

Description : How do I tell my Mother it's ok to slow down and don't worry about who gets what - right after my Father's death?

Last Answer : It sounds like she's doing the keep busy' thing to deal (or not deal) with her grief. Maybe you could point that out to her, and suggest that she keep busy in some other way if she feels the ... her that you are not ready to handle this task just yet. Again, my sympathies to you and your family.

Description : How do I deal with this guilt?

Last Answer : I am sorry for your loss. Your situation sounds complex, like most situations with elderly family members who want to retain their independence. It was made much more so by the family tensions you ... and full life and realize that being in a nursing home would not necessarily have been a panacea.

Description : What are some of the ways that you had commemorated your loved one's passing?

Last Answer : I planted a garden of daffodils and tulips for my mother which were what were blooming around the time that she died. I like that they come up every year for her. Also some day lillies ... planting things in memory of people because the plants live on, rather than bouquets of flowers that die.

Description : Have you ever cancelled a trip because you were afraid?

Last Answer : Are you saying that your dead husband won’t be able to find you?

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