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Crush stuff because I'm socially inept?
Last Answer : Trust your gut and ask him out for coffee. Great guys are hars to find and chemistry is very underrated. Goid luck!

Do you have something to contribute to The Museum of Broken Relationships?
Last Answer : Artists aren’t regular people. Most people move on because that’s the normal thing to do.

Have things in your love life ever begun ass backwards, or topsy turvy?
Last Answer : My wife was reminding me today that our 41st anniversary is coming up in June. Then she asked if I remember how we met. I said, Yes, I was in a crappy mood after work and stopped in ... just gotten off work, smelled funky and probably looked worse. Funny how things just happen. Any stories folks?

Am I a bad person for this?
Last Answer : Pretty sure Reddit moderators deal with alt accounts all the time. The better question might be why you got banned “well over a thousand” times?

Are verbal pick-up lines becoming a thing of the past as more social media interactions become the norm?
Last Answer : No, of course they’re not becoming “a thing of the past”, except maybe in the exaggerated expressions of people overly fixated on trends.

How do I go about this?
Last Answer : Well, It's not my place to say this, I don't know the whole story but from what I understood, your family wants you and your husband to live with them until the baby is born, is that correct? If ... and have a discussion about this. This is the best way to go about this. Hope my answer helps you.

How has COVID affected your daily habits and relationships with other people?
Last Answer : We are not traveling or visiting people as much as we used to. There are fewer restaurant visits and shopping trips. Every time we go out we think about catching and spreading it. All the adults in ... and as a courtesy to others. (Also a mask feels great when you are outside in freezing weather.)

Do you think the pandemic will be over by 2024?
Last Answer : I don’t think the pandemic will ever be ‘over’ as in gone or eradicated. Instead, if we are lucky, it will recede in severity to that of the flu.

Would I be a bad person for deciding not to watch my dads cats while he's gone?
Last Answer : No.

Why do conservatives use the laugh emoji on posts that have to do with covid, or vaccines?
Last Answer : I suppose it’s because they think covid is a joke.

Are the willingly unvaccinated bad people?
Last Answer : The absolute worst.

Is this bullying?
Last Answer : No, that's not specifically bullying, because bullying means using intimidation, threats, force, and/or other aggressive power to abuse, dominate, control, etc. Since he's not meaning to be hurtful ... see whether the others seem to be just amused, or actually bothered, in the most extreme cases.

How do i tell my boyfriend the Netflix account he payed for is not working?
Last Answer : Just tell him. Maybe he used the wrong account or something. But he should know.

Why do some men (including me) have the fantasy of sharing their wife?
Last Answer : This is revolting to me. In modern day this behavior is considered deviant and sick. Perhaps such fantasy is rooted in an ancient desire to spread genetic material to another gene pool because sharing your wife would might require having access to someone else’s wife.

How to explain someone that relationship is not a joke?
Last Answer : I think this is something she'll have to figure out for herself. Anyway, it sounds like you're both pretty young. She has plenty of time to learn to get serious. And she doesn't sound like ... serious business, though. It is not a joke. Youngsters who don't recognize this are heading for trouble.

Guys, do you feel intimidated by muscles on women?
Last Answer : Intimidated? No Not attracted? Depends on the person and the muscles. I do not find body builders of either gender attractive. But a person who is in good shape from regular exercise/conditioning is very attractive.

When do you walk away from a family relationship?
Last Answer : When you can’t win for losing. You don’t need the stress.

I like a boy, I'm not sure if he likes me back and it's getting stressful?
Last Answer : I don’t think he’s playing any “I’ll say this so people will think that” games so better to bide your time. He knows your hook is baited for him so give it time.

What do I do after my friend and I kissed?
Last Answer : Welcome to the wonderful world of being human! You have discovered that sexuality is a continuum. The vast majority of people fall somewhere on the scale between totally heterosexual and totally homosexual. In between ... feel. They're trained to help you make your own choices. All the best to you.

Does my friend like me?
Last Answer : I know it seems scary, but you could ask him. What’s the worst that could happen?

What are the many reasons people don't date the nice girl or nice guy?
Last Answer : Because most nice guys aren’t genuine. They’re insecure and tend be a bit defensive. I think there’s a major difference between being nice and being kind.

When a psychologist experiences transference (and countertransference) towards a patient, or vice versa, does this usually affect their private relationships?
Last Answer : Your scenario just doesn't happen. A psychologist isn't allowed to develop any feeling for a patient outside of the professional environment. They definitely have feeling, but it would just be like my feeling ... someone in need of help. If they do have strong feeling, they wouldn't act on it.

Are people over-using the term "narcissist" (and "gaslighting" for that matter)?
Last Answer : It’s a fad, I feel. This year’s stopgap. In a year ‘we’ will be using other ones, and gaslighting and narcissism will have their real meaning and value back.

Do you say "I Love You" to your loved ones always?
Last Answer : I rarely say it to people. I told my dog several times a day, though. It just doesn’t seem to come easily for me to say.

What are some sayings or phrases that your parents and grandparents used to say, that you remember fondly?
Last Answer : My Dad used to say: “Only a fool argues with a fool. Don’t be a fool.” It is thought provoking. Now, about that magnetic vaccine….

Crush sent me a song but the lyrics are kind of...mean?
Last Answer : Why don’t you ask him? My friends send me songs all the time. She just wants to share a good song with me.

Being friends with a woman who is Japanese?
Last Answer : Before I can answer the question, I need to ask: how much of Japanese culture do you know? Because you have been asking a lot of questions related to Japanese women. And also why do you want a Japanese woman specifically? What is wrong with women in your place?

Advice on a crush?
Last Answer : It will take some courage, but you should definitely pursue it.

Have you ever dated a Japanese woman?
Last Answer : Yes. It would be different.

Is anyone in your life trying to change you? If so, how does that feel?
Last Answer : It usually feels terrible. I don't think anyone is trying to change me right now, but I know that some people in my life wish I was different about some things. I feel the same way ... is getting really sick of living with someone who drinks too much and paying for more electricity than necessary.

How to deal with abuse?
Last Answer : It sounds like moving away was a very good action on your part. You're not going to change those bullies so avoiding them is the best thing to do. If I were you, I would not go home for ... to get some therapy so you do not replicate that pattern in any new friendships you might make. Good luck!

I have fallen in love with a man. He is 26, and I'm 16. How do I speak to my parents about it?
Last Answer : Anyone 26 having sex with a 16 year old is a predator and a scumbag. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Please be safe and talk to an adult you trust.

My ex girlfriend's mom died, what should I do?
Last Answer : Her feeling for you can be genuine but at the same time, she probably feels she would be leading you on if she seems too appreciative. In the meantime, it's probably just best if you cool ... people who still have their folks and pissed off at those who seem to take their parents for granted.

Would I be a bad person for not confronting this bully?
Last Answer : Honestly, that seems pretty minor for online gaming. Would have been nice to speak up. But definitely nothing to beat yourself up about.

How can I help my neighbor? Can you give me some advice on how I can help my neighbor in the situation that he is in?
Last Answer : Are you living somewhere in Asia?

My girlfriend doesn't like my best friend?
Last Answer : Tell your girlfriend that if this were a teen romance movie, you would totally end up falling for your friend. But this is real life, so she shouldn’t worry since you’re an upstanding gentleman. Just kidding. Would having them get to know each other help?

How can it be determined that identity and prejudice are factors in certain interactions (read more)?
Last Answer : I think some do see racism when there was none.

A question for those on the autism spectrum, do you have a hard time deciphering what flirting looks like?
Last Answer : Flirting and being nice and friendly is almost the same thing. The difference relies in the ultimate intention that person has with you. So, in your case, it is virtually impossible to tell one way ... usually don't assume that men are attracted to me just because they are being nice and friendly.

What's up with a guy ignoring girls he dated at all costs?
Last Answer : Nothing surprising about it. He’s in a lot of pain from the break ups and doesn’t want to see his Exes. We all react in our own ways to hurt.

Why do tall women get ribbed on while man get congratulated, for being tall?
Last Answer : Nothing wrong with being tall bud. Think on your feet. People talk shit to you, come right back at them. “I was born that way, what’s your excuse?” “Did smoking stunt your growth, or are you trying get a job as Dwarf Jester at the local palace?” You’re welcome : )

So, what's the big problem with "The Friend Zone"?
Last Answer : I've been with the same woman for 40 plus years, so I am far beyond having to worry about all that. I was just curious about what other guys think about that. As said, after responding to ... think that's such a horrible thing. Just a fun, off the wall question. No need for serious philosophizing.

What are the potential psychological effects of not being hugged by one’s parents since childhood ?
Last Answer : Lack of touch in infants can cause autism like symptoms. Rocking, withdrawn, blank staring faces, less likely to speak, sleep disruptions. All sorts of side effects. There are some well documented ... played with enough. Even later in childhood it has some profound effects. It's basically neglect.

Why Did my Female friend lie about her height?
Last Answer : Was she measured with or without shoes or socks? People do lose height as they get older (bone shrinkage). Why do you care about ½ inch? When she is lying down, you’re the same height.

Should I tell my boyfriend all about my past?
Last Answer : If you’ve known each other your whole life, leave it alone and be happy.

What are puppy dog eyes?
Last Answer : Usually big, soft, begging eyes full of love and trust. Like a dog.

Do you ever feel like you get the brunt of your S/Os ire over a previous relationship?
Last Answer : My boss was passing though town the other day, heading back to Austin after checking a rental property he has in a neighboring town, and called to see if I wanted to go have a beer with him. I ... , not chasing some 20 something girl young enough to be my damn grand daughter. Im not a damn perv.

How to teach your 4 year toddler to write.
Last Answer : Does he see you (or anybody) reading and writing, or just on your phone or online all the time? Kids imitate what they see. If you make it look like a worthwhile activity, he will notice. That will ... to read some during daytime so he would see me modeling it as a normal and enjoyable thing to do.

How do you know when he is lying about how he feels about you?
Last Answer : It is hard to tell if someone is lying but a easy way is to make them look you in the eye if they can’t look you straight in the eye, their lying. That is unless their really good at it. Another way to tell if their lying is to hook them up to a lye detector and see if they are lying.

Was she putting me down?
Last Answer : Sounds like it, considering the lyrics. ETA after reading your post. I doubt she was still pissy, that implies she has been pissy all along. Maybe she thought you were a huge asshole at the end and that perception was triggered by seeing you again. We tend to smooth out stuff in our memories.

How do I resolve this extremely difficult situation with Muslim parents?
Last Answer : Ultimately, this really isn't about Islam, it's about a stubborn father who is unwilling to listen to the feelings of his child. If you love this woman and she loves you, then marry her. Devote ... problems and how you will solve them. Work as a team together to support each other and your kids.