Did you have a set bedtime when you were growing up? Do your kids?

Did you have a set bedtime when you were growing up? Do your kids?
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I did, but I don’t remember what it was. That went away at some point in Jr. High though… not so much because I was responsible enough, but because my dad was a pretty firm believer in suffering the consequences if you weren’t responsible, no matter how many times that had to happen before I decided to do the right thing.
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