answer:Funny you should ask. My sister and I have been doing this with my mother’s stuff for weeks. I have been sending out photos, letters and even descriptions of cemetery plots to my many cousins, second cousins and assorted relatives from both sides of the family…or to be precise, four sides. My mother’s parents’ kin and my fathers’. It has given me a chance to reconnect and delight many people For example, I found a small photo of a WW! bomber, flown by one of my uncles, with “Gail Ann” stenciled on the side. That would have been teeny me in 1942. My sister is less ruthless than I and consequently will have the largest number of boxes cluttering up her attic.Ten years from now she will be moaning about what to do with much of it. And don’t get me started on the paintings, both from my mother and her mother. It’s hard to know what matters.