Description : If a friend of yours loses their mother, do you address the condolence card to only your friend, or to your friend and their spouse?
Last Answer : answer:No customs for grieving folks. Follow your own heart. Personally, I would deal directly with the mourner. It's his mother, after all. In the early stages of grief, however, nuances don't ... some affection or comfort does. (And don't obsess over your choice words. That is unimportant also.)