my ex girlfriend and I are really close and are as good or better than when we were dating I really want to kiss her but I want it to be special how do I make it memeroble? r

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don’t. come close to, then stop. make her want it more. and you want it more. then when the time is absolutely perfect (and i mean like, the kind of kiss that she would remember for the rest of her life perfect; after a hard day in the rain, etc.), go for it. slowly and genuinely. it’ll be the best kiss of her life, since she’ll want it so bad and it will be perfectly timed. at least, the best kiss so far. :]

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