I think that a person should be able to take their own life without others’ ridicule…one’s life is all one has to control to an extent and it’s not up to you or me to tell someone they can’t end it…yes, it’s a selfish act but I don’t consider selfishness, sometimes, to be negative…now, however you respond to someone’s suicide, their note, or whoever they left behind is part of how you will control your own life and if you spend it by blaming them, you’re not doing their memory justice, imo… I am sorry you lost a friend, I, too have lost someone to suicide, long ago, and I miss them