Zach: “Good” and “bad” are harsh and judgmental words. You are who you are; don’t mess with that. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. You’ll be at college or university soon and will see large numbers of sub-cultures, several of which you will fit comfortably into. If you hang around with people who like to club, love hip hop and rap, think ideas on philosophy, art, and literature are not “cool,” you are hanging with the wrong group. Think of what a mess I’d turn into if I felt that “they” thought I should become a programmer or an auto mechanic,