I have a 94 yr old mother with dementia. Forget about trying to change her memories or her condition. Let her talk about anything she needs to. She will drift further and further from reality; I hope that doesn’t upset you. Today my mother told us that someone does not want her to take showers. So we are scheduling one a week on her calendar; either my sister or I will call her that AM and remind her. She has also started to forget about having her toe nails cut, so we will get that scheduled also. It is sad, so do your exercises, check the daily crossword puzzle and watch what you eat.