That’s odd…real life army isn’t Yipee Ki Yay Motherfuckyeah America. I’m sure the army can use you somewhere. Not everyone in the military ends up as a soldier, they need plenty of different people for different things. They usually leave out people who are clinically insane, have issues with things like depression or suicide, or who have major physical handicaps…but not because you’re too “soft”. If you’re into computers, programming or technological maintenance for example, they need you, even if you’re a cross dresser. Srsly.