answer:I am partial to the Incredible over the Droid X for sure, but I’ve never actually used the Desire. To put it simply, you’re going to be getting a different 3rd party skin for Android on either of those phones, which sucks, but you might as well take the lesser of the 2 evils in HTC Sense instead of Moto Blur which is just terrible. Blur is slow, laggy, and when I played with the Droid X it kind of took away from the entire experience of the Droid X. I also prefer a smaller phone, but that’s just me.