Have they done any studies into why some people always seem to be happy, or at least content, even when life gets rough?

Have they done any studies into why some people always seem to be happy, or at least content, even when life gets rough?
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answer:Yes, Dr. Donald O. Clifton conducted an extensive study on the effects of Positivity in conjunction with The Gallup Organization. You might enjoy reading Clifton’s book, How Full is Your Bucket? The book includes a code that allows the owner to take an assessment to learn what their Top Five Strengths are. The book and the assessment results are fascinating. (Just make sure to buy the book new and not used, as the previous owner probably already used the code.)
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