answer:I wouldn’t. When you met him you were in a dither, and I suspect your feelings for him now are a holdover from that time. I doubt highly that he’s the only nice guy out there that you could date. Further, if he is any kind of a professional, and one who is currently doing business with your ex-husband to boot, he would turn you down. Look for someone not at all in any way, shape of form affiliated with your ex-husband. Anyway, that’s what I think. The very fact you had to make a plea in this question for us to be open-minded is your own intuition telling you this isn’t a good idea and you want to ignore it.