answer:@QueenOfNowhere that is a horribly sad tale; and I’m so thankful you took action. My god! I’ve got plenty of sad stories in my bag, but I’ll provide a humorous (and possibly interesting) moment. Right out of college, I was interviewing for an admin asst position. I’m female, and the man who was interviewing me saw my Phi Beta Kappa key pinned to my jacket. He actually asked me if I was wearing my husband’s PBK key. WTF???? I replied, “No, but I’m wearing my husband’s underwear.” I didn’t get the job (thank goodness).