answer:Equally we both: -do the laundry -scrub the toilets -water the garden plantings -clean the shower/tub -repair things plumbing, electrical-etc Husband does more: -He does the vacuuming (as it’s his fav chore and who am I to stand in his way?) -Empties the dishwasher -Errands My jobs: -Animal cages, baths, clippings-etc -Child rearing -Food prep, storage, cooking -Organizing of everything -Setting up household routines -Gardening/yardwork he does mow, weed, and trim often, maybe he does 25% while I do 75% -Planning of most everything We try to be understanding of differences. If he doesn’t like to do something, I’ll do it…If I hate a chore, he’ll do it or step in to help.