Well, define mess…I mean, is there ever a time when any of us aren’t a mess…just mostly times when we’re less of a mess than other times…there were times in my life that were out of my control, postpartum depression, deaths in the family, etc…I was more of a mess then…I am much better now, though I’m medicated…I don’t have any regrets about any periods in my life, that’s just not how I roll…and I very rarely apologize…for anything.