answer:I am a single mother and have never been married (which, to some is non-conformist, and I realize that to some, it’s not). I am 46 and I still listen to hard core hip hop and heavy metal. I remember when I was in my early 20’s I had a friend who was 30, and she still listened to heavy metal, and i thought it was so admirable that she never gave that up in her old age LOL.