answer:I was a dancer for 12 years “way back when.” I realized much later that I was really good, but my self confidence and self perception didn’t allow me to continue. I still love dancing but won’t get my 18 year old body back—I could get back in shape, but won’t have the same physical resiliency and power that I used to have. I don’t regret it, but any time I watch good dancing of any kind, I wonder, and yes, am wistful.