Imagine two ants waling outdoors and it begins to rain, One ant gets hit wih a raindrop every step it takes. The other ant walks along not being hit with one single drop. Is the rain aiming for one ant but not the other? No. It just happens that way. Everyone is met with obstacles during life. For some it seems quite often, for others, not so much All we can do is meet each difficulty with all the strength and wisdom we can manage.