answer:I don’t think you can generalize about genders like that. It wouldn’t have mattered if you had a penis in your pants in either of those scenarios to me if I were in your husband’s place. If someone told me things that appear to be unrealistic/or against the facts I have available, I’m going to treat them with a lot of skepticism regardless of the gender of the person making the claim. Perhaps men are more skeptical in general than women, but I would need to see real evidence before making that conclusion. Yes there are still misogynists out there, who think women’s place is in the home, barefoot and pregnant (and all that crap). I’m not trying to deny that those scumbags still exist. I was speaking in general terms about the average male.