What's a kind way to bow out of an event that you're asked to volunteer for, without being offensive to the person requesting?

What's a kind way to bow out of an event that you're asked to volunteer for, without being offensive to the person requesting?
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That sounds good, and maybe add a softener like “I hope it’s a good turnout, I look forward to hearing about it!” Sounds more like involvement without obligation.
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