Let’s see. My husband has to use tongues to pick up the piece of toast I can hold in my hand. I’m freezing cold if the house is set at 70 degrees, other people still want it colder. However, if I was just dancing for an hour, 70 might feel great. I guess everything is relative, and most lines are grey fuzzy lines rather than a simple decision of black and white. Good and evil leaders. It reminds me of Soledad O’brien (Cuban-American black journalist) talking about Castro. She loves America, and the American way, but she remembers her mom saying Castro was better than Batista, because when Castro came in Afro-Cubans were treated more fairly. They had work, were educated, and more equal.