True love isn't. Often times especially with younger people, love is usually confused with lust, passion and desire. The passion and desire comes with love but they cannot exist alone and be called love. When I was a teenager, I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that you can fall out of love with someone and then fall in love with another. I thought your heart and soul can only be connected to the soul of just one person in your entire lifetime. True love is when you take away all the burning passion and desire, strip the beauty and youth, take away the money and candlelight moments and you find that you still care immensely about another soul even when they hurt you sometimes.