answer:First, you tell yourself that once you reach a decision, you are going to honor your process and not second guess yourself. All of the regret is wasted energy. If things seem equal in the present, try casting out into the future. If you look a year down the road, does one decision have the potential to lead to better things? Two years? Five years? They are much less likely to be equal on that basis. If for some reason they are, then ask yourself if you would be equally happy with either choice. If the answer, is yes, pick one and move on. Good luck.