Recent questions tagged manners

Description : Would you have prompted this kid, who isn't your own, to thank you for a gift, even in front of his parents?

Last Answer : “The grandson of a friend” There is your problem. You are essentially a stranger.

Description : So, did you have any interesting trick or treaters last night?

Last Answer : I took my daughter, her friend and the friend’s brother out. The boy ran in front of a car. I nearly had a heart attack. He had to hold my hand the rest of the time. It was the only car we saw and it was only doing 10 mph and stopped in plenty time but still…

Description : When your doorbell rings, or someone knocks on the door, do you answer or ignore?

Last Answer : Ignore and tip toe around until the stranger goes!

Description : Some people find fast eaters annoying. Is the same true for those who are always the last one at the table to finish?

Last Answer : answer:As long as people are eating politely, I really don't care if people eat fast or slow. It's not something I worry about. If I'm having dinner with friends and one of them eats slower or ... 'm being impatient. What trouble does it cause me to sit and talk to you while you finish your meal?

Description : Is there a graceful way of giving someone an "out"?

Last Answer : Simply tell him or her that it’s been taken care of, so that s/he no longer has to. Then, thank the person.

Description : Seriously. Has passing gas [farting] become more socially acceptable lately?

Last Answer : The horrible diet we have. When you line your bowels with oils things are bound to slip out. I am partially joking.

Description : People smoking e-cigarettes in restaurants - what do you think?

Last Answer : answer:Don’t hurt me none. Seriously. I can’t smell it, there’s no second-hand smoke, it affects me in no way shape or form. If I thought anything, it would be “How nice of that smoker to keep his nicotine consumption to himself”.

Description : Is it just me, or do people not seem to be moving out of the way of moving vehicles lately?

Last Answer : answer:It's not just parking lots. More and more people seem unaware of what is around them. Not concerned how they may be affecting others, blocking others. In parking lots and on the road in ... doing the right thing, but it happens enough that people seem to be oblivious that it is noticeable.

Description : Pardon me, ma'am, but are you bothered by being called "ma'am?"?

Last Answer : I’m almost 54, sooo…yes and no. It does sound old and frumpy, kind of outdated in my opinion these days. I had a guy call me “miss” the other day and THAT sounded worse than “ma;am.” lol

Description : Is politeness something we humans need to be taught?

Last Answer : Well humans learn behaviour by observing others, children raised by wolves would imitate them etc. I think it is instinctive to look out for yourself, even at a young age. In saying that, we are ... learn that through experience, rather than being told what to do, which might take a bit longer!

Description : Would this action fly in your town?

Last Answer : I’d be annoyed if the kid kicked me in the head whilst doing a gymnastic stunt. But other than that I think its great!

Description : Chantix, anyone? have you tried it?

Last Answer : It was a miracle drug for my husband and me. I haven’t smoked since May 1 and he was about five days behind me.

Description : What makes someone a "wonderful houseguest"?

Last Answer : A little Independence, a spot of tidiness, understanding household routine and offering to pitch in when required.

Description : How would you manage this traffic and tardiness issue?

Last Answer : answer:Can the appointment be rescheduled for a time of day when traffic is more predictable? If this were my situation, I would probably try to arrange things so that I had somewhere else to go at ... can be scheduled to suit me-I'd make sure that everyone affected feels free to start without me.

Description : Is whining about whining considered - whining?

Last Answer : Hell Yes

Description : What traits and qualities make someone a good or bad person.

Last Answer : answer:Dick move- Being nice and using someone until you don't need them any longer, then not having their back when they need some help. Nice- Always being there for someone who needs you and never ... do so many bad people manage to pass for good for so long? Look at my dick move example.

Description : When someone cuts in line at the gas pump, what is YOUR response?

Last Answer : answer:I tend to find this kind of thing completely hilarious. Even if I'm in a hurry, a ludicrous display like that always makes me chuckle. The fact that she was pregnant makes it extra ... serve to justify the salute. Laughing makes you feel better and them feel stupid. Fight fire with water!

Description : Which event to choose?

Last Answer : The latter.

Description : When you order food from a waitress, what words do you start out with?

Last Answer : I always start with “Hi there, I’ll have the….”

Description : Have you ever said something to someone if they were sending and receiving texts while you were trying to have a conversation with them?

Last Answer : I tell them when they’re done we can resume our conversation and walk away. They got miffed, but didn’t do it again.

Description : Why is it that men openly adjusting/grabbing themselves in public is socially acceptable?

Last Answer : Got me swinging. That’s why I don’t watch it. Men, anyway. I have no problem with a woman adjusting herself.

Description : When did "offending" someone become as bad as murder?

Last Answer : People like attention. Being offended is giving all the bad attention you don’t want to someone else, yet still getting all the pats on the back from everyone else.

Description : Do you hold your pinky up when you hold a glass? Why do you do it?

Last Answer : It’s an unconscious habit. My dad does it. I must have picked it up as a child.

Description : How can we avoid unnessessary use of gender-specific pronouns?

Last Answer : I like zee and hom. I have a feeling hoz won’t work well, though…

Description : When people say "I'll pray for you," do they actually do it?

Last Answer : I feel people have the intent do such a thing. Maybe sometimes they forget. Initially the intent is there and that would be good enough for me.

Description : Letter from an ex--what do I do?

Last Answer : My gut reaction says a letter is a bad idea. If he has something important to tell you why can’t he email it? hoping it’s not health related

Description : Is it rude to ignore someone, maybe someone you don't even know, for no reason?

Last Answer : Obviously, yeah. You should yell at them.

Description : Which is the correct way "God bless you" or just "bless you"?

Last Answer : Meh, I just say “Bless you”

Description : Whats the best way to ask for a kiss?

Last Answer : “Give mama some sugar, baby.”

Description : Is making eye contact and smiling appropriate behaviour for seeing someone in the hall who you don't wanna talk to?

Last Answer : I think so, that’s how I greet my neighbors. :)

Description : What's a polite way of saying no to someone who asks for a pencil or someother type of writing utencil during class?

Last Answer : i hated this in school! and i hated telling people know so what i did is: 1. i'd buy really crummy pencils or pens so i didn't have to worry about them being lost or etc. 2. i'd get custom pencils ... they won't ask for one from you again. 6. have them ask someone else. srsly, i could go all day!

Description : Would you speak up?

Last Answer : If they are using insulting words (such as a racial slur or a sexual slur) then I think I would say something. If I had a small child with me within hearing range, I think I might as well, but other than that, I would see no reason to.

Description : Bless you?

Last Answer : I think they’re being considerate and then it leaves my mind.

Description : I'm having trouble with this. Is a lack of respect the same as disrespect?

Last Answer : I don’t think so. You can be ignorant and have lack of respect to those around you. But if you are aware of your actions then there is the intent for disrespect.

Description : Why is it rude to point?

Last Answer : The gesture itself is a bit agressive and (if you’re standing close) invasive.

Description : How do I write a Dear John letter to a 71 yr old?

Last Answer : Just stop responding?

Description : How should you respond when someone tells you they are going through an amicable divorce?

Last Answer : “I’m glad to hear you are working things out amicably. Still, I’m here to support you if you need anything. I know that change can always be tough…I’m here for you!”

Description : Are you super nice to rude people?

Last Answer : I’d approach it by asking for her boss

Description : Should you send a thank you for a thank you gift?

Last Answer : you can just say it and do good deeds throughout your life to be appreciative.

Description : Does it offend you when...

Last Answer : answer:I’m not that “PC”! This question made me think about the Soup Nazi on Seinfeld!

Description : Are you (if male) a "next-to-her," or an "across-from her?" If you are female, which kind is your man?

Last Answer : My husband and I are “across” types. Many reasons, including being able to look at each other while we talk. When I see a couple sitting next to each other in a booth, I always imagine they are in the throes of a new, intense love.

Description : Do you eat or drink something you see at work and cannot identify it's owner?

Last Answer : Hell no. I work in a hospital. I try very hard not breathe while I’m at work never mind picking up and putting in my mouth randon stuff I find lying about in it.