answer:Not a guy, but the child of a cancer survivor here. She’s going to get tested which is the first step. From what I understand and what happened with my own mom, people wait too long to get tested and then any issues are harder to deal with. Even if there is something wrong, these days, cancer is not a death sentence. Also, believe it or not, but having a wonderful loving partner like you can really help. Your lady is going to be just fine. I bet she doesn’t even have a lump!