answer:She might be hiding something from you if she doesn’t want you to meet her family or other friends and boyfriends. Or, she might just prefer one-on-one time with friends, or not want her friends/family to judge her other friends. I am like this. Anyway, her mother’s funeral should be her call and not something you should cause a ruckus over. IMHO. If she is a true friend, she should understand that you wanted to attend in order to support her. But honestly, it doesn’t sound like right now is the time to try to hash out your potential friendship problems. She is in mourning.