I should be who i want to be or just be the one the others want me to be??

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answer:There comes a point where you realise that you can not make everyone happy, so make yourself happy. If you follow your dream, then your family should be happy for you, whether or not in makes sense in their world. If they are disappointed in you, let them be. You only have to accept yourself, no one else matters. So go your own way, do your own thing, if it makes you happy, then who’s to question it? If this is a continuing problem for you, you might consider looking for psychiatric help. Sometimes it just takes someone to talk you through things to help. Good luck!

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