Oh – I see you’ve already checked out Jcrew bridesmaid’s line. I was going to suggest to go directly to those because of the all the bridesmaid’s dresses I’ve seen, they have the most classic cuts, the least bridesmaidy-type materials, and do duty for many other occasions. My next try would be Anthropologie where you will undoubtedly have to pay a lot, or Macy’s – which has a great selection of higher-end designers like Tracey Reese. Check out her ‘Frock’ line.