I need advice on how to help my gf with emotional stress from abortion.

I need advice on how to help my gf with emotional stress from abortion.
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Sounds like you’re doing all that you can do. Just keep holding her hand through the process. Find out when she will be done with the second half of the procedure and call her once you figure she’s out of the clinic. Continue to be there for her unconditionally. There’s only so much else you can realistically do when you’re separated by an ocean.
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