I fully understand your situation there. It’s going to be hard to let this go if the other person won’t REALLY sit down & talk it out. I’m a talker. I want things resolved, too. My husband isn’t a talker. We have an issue going on right now & he won’t open up about it. I could scream. You’re either going to have to wait until it CAN be hashed out, or reslove it in your head yourself, as to how to handle this. When you get no co-operation in dealing with problems, you don’t get very far. Communication is very important. Without it, you’re sunk. I feel for you. I hope you can get closure on it soon.