Etiquette question - how do I handle this gift?

Etiquette question - how do I handle this gift?
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Thank them profusely and explain that you don’t need the money and won’t be depositing the check. You really appreciate their concern for your and your family’s well-being and you were amazed by their generosity. Suggest a charity instead, and send a thank-you note.
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