I've been living in New Mexico for 5 years now and thought that by this time, I'd be feeling comfortable. But that's not the case.

I've been living in New Mexico for 5 years now and thought that by this time, I'd be feeling comfortable. But that's not the case.
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So move somewhere else! But maybe it’s not your location that makes you uncomfortable. Maybe it’s something about yourself or your lifestyle. In that case, moving will have no real effect.
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