How long did it take you to adjust to your new community after a big move?

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Well, there is a plethora of languages spoken where I live anyway, and I just have to drive a few miles to go from Thai town to Korea town, to little Armenia… But to answer the question, I moved from L.A. to the suburbs of Sacramento and I never got used to it; I was there for almost 3 years. In fact I hated it, and it never felt like home, which is why I came back. To me (and I might piss astrochuck off) the Sacramento area is like the middle of America. The area is much too homogeneous and conservative for my taste. I never saw so many Bush/Cheney bumper stickers in my life.

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