To be neutral is to be blank and uninvolved. Because we humans have brains, minds, imaginations and each other, being neutral is impossible. Being disconnecting does not mean you are neutral. It just means you are isolated, which an extreme, an extreme opposite of “social butterflyism.” You would have to find an exact midpoint between these two extremes to be balanced, and only heaven knows how you would be neutral. Urg. To much philosophy.