I agree that people are disconnected from each other – just the other day I was on a ask-public question trying to explain that we’ve cornered touch into either ‘sexual’ or ‘non-sexual’ and there are, I believe, quite a few other variations in between. I’m the kind of person that is very touchy and I always tell people ahead of time – I also live in the moment…if you and I are strangers but we’re having one of those evenings where we talk for hours and we want to hold hands, I will w/o wondering where ‘it might lead’.