answer:I don’t know, but I could have written that question so much better than you. … OK, I’m kidding – but I truthfully think we’re just wired that way. To be competitive. To boost (or lower) our esteem by comparing ourselves to those we see as similar to us (in many regards). I don’t have a problem with it in moderation. I think comparisons can gain us a sense of humility or provide motivation to strive for a goal. The problem lies in the extremes. If everyone is so much better than you by simply breathing that can be debilitating emotionally and be a sign of depression. Conversely, if you’re always seeking out ways you’re better than others, then you may be highly insecure and/or arrogant. I’m sure much of this depends on your upbringing and how you were compared to others. Parents, teachers and other kids make comparrisons all the time. Even done with no intended malice, it’s there (implied and subtle).