The ability to grow up; to know when you need to ‘man up’ (I don’t care if you’re a girl, you can man up every now and again), to know when somebody needs you, to do things even though you don’t want to, to be nice even though somebody is treating you like shit, to treat everyone equally, to know that everyone is a person who deserves to be treated right, to not make excuses, and just live life knowing that you’re doing your part- and actually be doing it.