Do men only date women at the same level of their attractiveness?

Do men only date women at the same level of their attractiveness?
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answer:Absolutely not in my case. I dated some beautys, and some who simply weren’t. I remember telling one of my friends “I’m going out with a girl named ____” He said “Is she pretty?” “No.” “Oh” he said. “That’s cool.” I was always more interested in the person than the appearance. That said, my wife was impossibly beautiful when we met.
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