Why do some men romantically pursue women that they know to be lesbians?

Why do some men romantically pursue women that they know to be lesbians?
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Maybe they want to convert/cure them, or maybe they are hoping for a threesome with 2 girls. Or maybe as a trophy to brag about “Haha, see, I got to fuck a lesbian, that is how awesome I am!”
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