answer:I personally think that you’re wonderful A few discussions today got me thinking and I asked my g/f: Being opinionated and obnoxious. How can one be opinionated without being an obnoxious ass? (I was referring to myself). Sometimes, I open my big mouth when I shouldn’t. Her response: Before You Speak, Ask Yourself: Is It Kind, Is It Necessary, Is It True, Does It Improve On The Silence? ~ Sai Baba For the most part, I try to keep my opinions to myself unless my advice is asked for or I really think something needs to be said. You know what they say about opinions, anyway. .