For the men of fluther, were you reckless when you were young and how old were you when you 'grew up'?

For the men of fluther, were you reckless when you were young and how old were you when you 'grew up'?
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Only when I had kids. Now that they have grown up – I’m sliding back to my youthful recklessness again.
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