When have you been blindsided by something in your life?

1 Answer

Answer :

answer:My ex refused to sign the forms so my children could attend my wedding. We didn’t get married in Australia. I had to go to court to get the papers signed to get them passports. I had written to my ex, given him all the info and he just said no or he ignored all communication. I get in court and I was very nervous. Never had to go to court before. My ex is attending by phone and he said “I have no objection, I don’t know why it has come to this. She just needs to give me the dates and the flight details (all of which had been provided). I have asked her for this and she just refuses to keep me informed”. I was so stunned, I was speechless. He totally lied. I was flicking through my paperwork to find the evidence to show I did send him all that info and his response but I was so shocked, I couldn’t find it! The judge was really critical of my behaviour and I just had to stand there and take it because I couldn’t find the emails proving he was lying. The judge told him he had to sign the papers but it was so humiliating. Taught me a big lesson though. Be prepared for anything and have your paperwork tagged so you can find things easily.

Related questions

Description : What are some examples of people being blindsided because of self-importance?

Last Answer : I read something some time ago about US companies using product names in foreign countries that offended people of those countries because the word meant something horrible in their language. Sadly, I cannot remember a single company or product name.

Description : Has this been you? You're normally a confident person, then something happens in your life and it shakes your confidence (temporarily). It hits you pretty hard and you have to build yourself back up again (maybe, through self talk)?

Last Answer : Break ups do that to me.