Am I wrong for feeling negatively about the agreement made regarding ********* gift exchange? (details inside)

Am I wrong for feeling negatively about the agreement made regarding ********* gift exchange? (details inside)
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I think it is natural to feel a little “blah” when a beloved tradition changes. From the description you’ve given, I get the impression that this is a smart move (financially, as you stated), so it may be necessary… but I think it’s okay to not be thrilled about it.
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